Big Kahuna Bully #BKB Defined

Steve Muto Bully - BigKahunaBully

Steve Muto - Kelly Muto - Big Kahuna Bully Identity

Steve and Kelly Muto have exploded onto Social Media over the last 6 months.  What’s it all about?  It is in everyone’s best interest to reveal what all the fuss is over.

Well, it’s about Big Kahuna Bully and what it means? #BKB?  There is also #HBB (Hawaii Bound Bitches).  They got the “bitches” part right. #HBB?

Known Family Serial Bully, Steve Muto, created a fake Twitter Bully Identity @BigKahunaBully to allow … Continue reading

The Most Anticipated Muto (Murdock) – 50th Wedding Anniversary Extravaganza

Granparents thought they were being given a peaceful Hawaiian 50th Wedding Anniversary Vacation.

Little did they know, Steve and Kelly had something more adventurous in mind. A Honeymoon / Bucket List Tour 2015 courtesy of God Speed.

Skydiving? Check
Shark diving? Check
Bucket List Tour? Check
Leave Grandparents at house? Check
Consolation attendance at Grandparent’s Wish List events?  Not so much.
Keep up Bully Campaign, from Hawaii, on the relatives back on the mainland with dozens and dozens of Indirect Cyber-Bully posts on Facebook? Check

Some posts as the one below are not so indirect.  … Continue reading

Beyond MAX Rub It In | InstaVomit

The Hawaii (Shove-your-nose-in-it-with-500-selfies) “Bucket List” of extreme sports was fulfilled by Steve Muto, Kelly Muto and her daughters this week in Hawaii.

Too bad for ‘ole Grandma and Grandpa, the Bucket List looks a little extreme for the 70+ crowd.
They must have been stranded at the house possibly cooking up some Blueberry Buckle.

What, were they watching from the house that’s not on a beach?
It’s called Waterfront, not Beachfront for those low information people.
To be a beachfront it would have to have SAND.

This must be a difficult concept for some … Continue reading

Why People In a Bad Marriage Stay Married

At least, the reasons they give for staying married…

Steve and Kelly Muto - Why Bully's in a Bad Marriage Stay Married

 

Not infrequently, patients come to my office telling me in detail everything wrong with their marriages. These complaints are not unusual, but they are usually heart-felt. They include a whole range of misbehavior’s on the part of their spouses. Sometimes there is only one serious transgression, such as a prolonged infidelity or drug use, including Continue reading

The Narcissist’s Dilemma: They Can Dish It Out, But . . .

Sure, the narcissist’s many defenses protect them–but at what cost?

Post published by Leon F Seltzer Ph.D. on Oct 12, 2011 in Evolution of the Self

The ability to take criticism well depends mostly on how secure we feel about ourselves. Yet it could hardly be said that any of us actually enjoys being criticized. For it’s a challenge to avoid feeling defensive when we experience ourselves as attacked. At such times, it’s more “natural”–or rather, more aligned with our conditioning–to go into self-protective mode. And typically, the way we choose to protect ourselves is through denying the … Continue reading

Muto’s – Keeping Up the Jet-Setter Appearances

The Parents of Steve Muto (Ron and Ruth Muto) are addicted to the “Jet-setter” lifestyle.

So much so, they will do practically anything, obviously, based on their actions this week, to get a free ride on their next Vacation.

Anything with a free, plane ticket, boat ride or trip on a merry-go-round.  They don’t care who they stomp on, or hurt, on their way to the airport or loading dock, watch out here they come.  They surely don’t care if they permanently damage their grand-kids, kids, in-laws. Shine it!  “Who cares about … Continue reading

Anonymity, Speed of Communication, and the Power of the Hive Mind

The power of the hive mind.

It is the speed of communication on the Internet—not just the anonymity—that makes it such a dangerous place. Rumors that would have taken weeks to reach the public consciousness in the pre-Internet age can rouse the Twitchfork-wielding rabble in an instant.

There’s a quote attributed to psychology pioneer William James that voices the principle at work here: “there’s nothing so absurd that if you repeat it often enough, people will believe it.”

That kind of mass-repetition can now happen on social media in a matter of minutes.

I’ve observed that once people have repeated … Continue reading

Steve Muto Reveals Himself as “BigKahunaBully”

BIGKAHUNABULLY

Steve Muto’s Bully Alter Ego…
Kelly Muto endearingly, “My Thuggish Hubby!

Steve Muto - Kelly Muto - Big Kahuna Bully Identity

 The “BigKahunaBully” Idol from Steve Muto’s Bully Twitter Site @BigKahunaBully
Steve began posting to his Facebook Page http://facebook.com/cartrucker, as “BigKahunaBully.” February 2015

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Steve Muto – Bully Long Haul Trucker?

Steve Muto a Bully Long Haul Trucker?
Yes, he is proud of the title because he filled his social media outlets with Trucks, Bully Posts and Personal Posts.

For the past several month’s Steve has been proudly displaying “His Wife, Himself and this big bright orange truck on Twitter.

Steve-Muto-Bully-Orange-Truck

Unbeknownst to most, Steve had created a Bully identity on Twitter as well.  BigKahunaBully.

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Bully Posts from the Road

Bully Posts from the Road with Steve Muto.

Steve travels this beautiful country of ours as a Long Haul Trucker.  He stops from place to place and must have quite a bit of free time on his hands to Cyber-Bully.  We can see each of these posts are from somewhere out there.  Can only stand to reason he must be Long Haul Trucking. Right?

This is just a sampling of what you can find “from the road” as one of Steve’s “Friends” on Facebook and Twitter…

Steve Muto Bully, Keeps It Up, Won’t Stop

This is Steve Muto’s last round of Serial Family Cyber-Bully Attacks on @BigKahunaBully Twitter.

Targeting Several Family Members…

Posted June 28th, 2015.  Just won’t stop…

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 Posted June 23rd, 2015.  Just won’t stop…

Steve Muto Bully Post

The blame is all you Steve Muto Bully.  There is no one else out there doing what you’re … Continue reading

The House That Steve Hated

Well folks, this is the house that was found, as a diamond in the rough by the family, not Steve.  Situated on the beautiful south side of Kailua Beach, HI.  Months of filtering and searching, phone calls, late nights and long days for just the right place with just the right room count, bathroom count, separate accommodations for Steve and Kelly (if they chose) in their own house next to the main house.  It was perfect for the group that was intending on going.  Under construction, but if you could see the vision of what and where the house was … Continue reading

Narcissist Check List – Read it Now!

You probably know someone, after reading the Narcissist Check List, that will meet some, most, or all of the Criteria on this list.
The Muto Family has a number of members that this could be their manifesto.

Steve Muto Bully - The Scapegoat Dynamic

Narcissist Check List:

  • Two faced, putting friends and family down behind their backs.
  • Tendency to blame their lack of success and failures on others.
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  • Bullying In Families Is More Covert

    Sometimes bullying, especially in families, is more covert.

    If you call out an adult bully, they reply with incredulity, “I was just asking questions! I can’t believe you took it that way,” putting the blame back on you. And then you start to wonder if you’re the crazy one. Yet even if you turn yourself inside out to try to please the bully, you never will, because bullies thrive on the feeling of instilling fear. Meet one demand and they’ll come up with another.

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    5 Ways Drivers Can Protect Themselves Against Bully Truckers

    By on February 10, 2014

    truck-accident-lawyerAccidents between tractor trailers and passenger vehicles are on the rise and so are injuries and fatalities connected with these crashes.

    Since many businesses depend on trucking companies to deliver their merchandise to customers, truckers face deadlines for hauling cargo to specific destinations. While most truckers follow the rules of the road in the course of their job, some exhibit bad driving behavior and pose dangerous risks on the highway.

    According to statistics from the Federal Motor Carrier Safety … Continue reading

    15 Reasons Why You Are The Most Annoying Person On Facebook

    You probably have thought of at least one person when you saw the name of this list; it’s that person, who no matter how much you love him or her or how great of a friend he or she can be in real life, he or she is without a doubt, the most annoying person on your Facebook news feed. Check out the list of 15 ways to tell if someone is insufferably bad at Facebook.

    Oh, and you may want to make sure that somehow, that annoying friend of yours takes a look at this, too. Think of it … Continue reading

    The Narcissist Defined

    We’ve all met one at some point. A man or woman who seems to believe they are the center of the universe. Arrogant, callous and manipulative, they force the world around them to accommodate this belief.

    Self-important and conceited, the narcissist exaggerates accomplishments, requires endless praise, and has an uncanny ability to quash the achievements of others. They lack empathy and don’t seem aware that you are a whole person with your own needs. In fact, you’re only a useful tool, something to extract admiration from. The narcissist believes they’re entitled to everything, including your time, your emotions and your self-esteem.

    The dramatic attempts to hold your attention … Continue reading

    Hypocrite Steve Muto

    Hypocrite Steve Muto

    Hypocrite Steve Muto is beyond just your average hypocrite.
    Combine that with severe case of narcissism and you have the makings for a real winner!

    Here a just a few examples of the outlandish hypocrisy of a social media drama queen, Steve Muto & Friends!

    Steve Muto Bully - Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a lie.

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    13th Attack-Defence Strategy: Claim the Part of the Victim

    This is an excerpt from a great online resource on Serial Family Bullying: “Family Bully Exposed”

    13th Attack-Defence Strategy: Claim the Part of the Victim (Steve Muto is straddling many stages of the Attack-Defense-Strategy, but his BigKahunaBully website is proof of the following…)

    Following closely after ‘feigned humility’, the Attack-Defence is complete. The Family Serial Bully will have successfully redefined themselves as the victim who requires more protection, attention, understanding and forgiveness than their Target(s). The same rights that go with being the ‘favored one’. If even one Ally is willing to allow the Family Serial Bully this … Continue reading

    Steve’s Over-the-Top Countdown

    Steve’s Over-the-Top Cursed Hawaiian Vacation “Countdown” has to go down as one of the most ridiculous displays of narcissism ever witnessed.

    The time and energy it took to try prove something to everyone, what we don’t know, but it is quite a body of work when you assemble it all into a single list.  This took hours mind you.  By the way, he did all of with the knowledge of having destroyed the relationships and family vacation that had been worked on so hard by other members of his family.

    Marvel at the narcissism on display.  Just take a look … Continue reading

    Steve and Kelly Dental News?

    Everyone on Facebook must be curious about the latest Dental News from the Muto’s judging by the number of posts related to dentistry.  Tune in for narcissistic updates of things no one actually cares about but get thrown up on Facebook anyway.

    Look at my perty smile Kells!  Come ‘ear give me a big ‘ole smooch.

    Steve Muto Sick Puppy Bully

     

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    Max Rub It In Your Face

    Steve and Kelly Muto thought they were so cute and funny making this their Facebook Profile Picture.
    It’s only been up like this for mmm, 6 MONTHS.  Nah, no shove it their noses it here.

    Quite an attractive look for the both of them!

    Steve and Kelly Muto - Hyenas Mating

    You Decide.

    Act Like a Fool – Bully Steve Muto

    Steve Muto and Wife, Kelly Muto Dressing Up?

    Anyone else thinking what we’re thinking?

    Steve Muto wouldn’t have been caught dead in a costume like these.
    Ah, Married Life…

    Steve Muto and Kelly Muto Acting Like Fools

    “Oh, Your Such an Animal Steve.”  “You big Bully you…”

    Steve Muto Bully, Kelly Muto Bully - Kelly Dressing Steve like a Doll

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